No Cheating: The First Three Colors You See Reveal How Narcissistic You Are
Color psychology has long intrigued researchers and psychologists alike, and one particularly fun—and surprisingly revealing—test claims the first three colors you notice can shed light on your narcissistic tendencies. While this isn’t an exact science, the theory is rooted in the idea that our subconscious is drawn to colors that reflect aspects of our personality, values, and emotional needs. Narcissism, in this context, doesn’t necessarily mean full-blown narcissistic personality disorder, but rather where you fall on the spectrum of self-focus, validation needs, and empathy.
Imagine you are presented with a vibrant color wheel or image with an array of hues. Without overthinking it, you pick out the first three colors that grab your attention. Here’s what your top choices might say about you:
1. Red
If red is one of the first colors you see, it could suggest high energy, passion, and confidence—but also a potential tendency toward dominance and attention-seeking. Red lovers are often bold and ambitious. However, in the context of narcissism, it may point to someone who thrives on recognition and might feel deflated without external praise. You could be self-assured, but it’s worth asking: do you let others shine, or do you need to be the center of attention?
2. Gold or Yellow
Seeing yellow or gold early might indicate a love for admiration and status. People drawn to these colors often enjoy being seen as successful, happy, and well-liked. They may present a sunny exterior but sometimes crave validation to keep their self-worth afloat. If you picked yellow or gold, you might be charming and optimistic—but also at risk of depending on others’ admiration to feel good about yourself.
3. Black
Black is powerful, elegant, and mysterious. It’s often associated with control and authority. Choosing black early might suggest a person who values privacy and independence, perhaps keeping emotional vulnerability hidden behind a carefully crafted image. This could reflect a narcissistic trait known as “vulnerable narcissism”—a form that masks insecurity under layers of self-control or aloofness.
4. Blue
If blue stood out first, that may hint at a more empathetic or people-focused nature. Blue is often associated with calm, sincerity, and trust. In this test, it may suggest lower narcissistic tendencies—perhaps you value connection and harmony over self-glorification.
5. Purple
Choosing purple quickly can point to someone who views themselves as unique or special. While that’s not inherently narcissistic, the desire to be seen as different or “above” the norm can lean toward self-importance. Purple lovers might have a touch of the “special snowflake” syndrome—an inflated sense of uniqueness.
In short, the first colors you see may reflect your inner drives, how much external validation you seek, and how much space you take up emotionally in a room. This isn’t a clinical diagnosis—but it is a fun and thought-provoking way to reflect on your personality.
So—no cheating—what were your first three colors? You just might have revealed more about your ego than you think.
