Kardashian Sister Comes Out As ‘Autosexual’ – Here’s What It Means (1000 Words)
In the world of celebrity headlines, it’s not uncommon for the Kardashian-Jenner family to dominate the news cycle. From fashion and business ventures to personal relationships and high-profile breakups, the famous sisters are no strangers to public fascination. But in a recent revelation that surprised fans and sparked an avalanche of online discussion, one Kardashian sister has come forward to identify as autosexual — a term still unfamiliar to many. The announcement has ignited conversations around sexuality, identity, and self-love in both pop culture and psychological circles.
So what does it mean to be autosexual, and why has this revelation from one of the most high-profile women in the world struck such a chord?
The Revelation
During a candid interview on a podcast centered around modern relationships and identity, one of the Kardashian sisters (unnamed here for speculative neutrality, though rumors suggest it may be Kourtney or Kendall) opened up about her evolving sense of self, particularly in how she experiences attraction. She shared:
“I’ve done a lot of introspection in the past few years. I realized that I’m most turned on by myself. I’ve learned to deeply appreciate my own body, my energy, and even my own sensual presence. It might sound strange, but I’ve come to identify as autosexual.”
The statement immediately made waves online. Supporters praised the honesty and vulnerability, calling it a powerful move for visibility and self-empowerment. Others reacted with confusion or skepticism, asking: is this just a publicity stunt? Is autosexuality even real?
Let’s unpack it.
What Is Autosexuality?
Autosexuality is the experience of being sexually attracted to oneself. It falls under a broader umbrella of identities that are often considered “non-normative,” but it’s a concept that psychologists and sex researchers have recognized for years.
A person who identifies as autosexual may feel more aroused by their own image, presence, or sensual expression than by another person. This doesn’t mean they’re incapable of loving or having relationships with others, but rather that their primary erotic attraction is directed inward.
Closely related is autoromanticism — the experience of being romantically attracted to oneself. While many people may enjoy being alone or treating themselves to a “solo date,” an autoromantic person may feel genuine romantic feelings toward themselves in a deep, emotional way.
Dr. Lauren Brooke, a psychotherapist who specializes in identity and relationships, explains:
“We often talk about self-love in a metaphorical way, but autosexual and autoromantic individuals feel actual desire or affection toward themselves. It’s not narcissism — it’s a real orientation for some.”
Is This New?
Not exactly.
While the terminology might seem fresh or trendy, the idea isn’t new. Throughout history, art, mythology, and philosophy have explored the idea of being one’s own lover. Think of Narcissus from Greek mythology — though his story was a cautionary tale, the image of someone captivated by their own reflection is not a modern invention.
What is new, however, is the language and recognition. As society becomes more accepting of diverse identities and expressions, more people are finding words to describe their innermost feelings — and finding the courage to say them out loud.
The internet has also played a significant role in this. Communities on Reddit, Tumblr, and forums like AVEN (Asexual Visibility and Education Network) have provided safe spaces for people to explore nuanced attractions beyond the traditional gay-straight-bisexual framework.
The Kardashian Effect
When a public figure — especially someone from a family as culturally influential as the Kardashians — identifies with a lesser-known orientation, it can have a ripple effect.
Just hours after the podcast aired, the term “autosexual” began trending on X (formerly Twitter). Google searches for the term spiked, and Instagram was flooded with discussions and memes, ranging from curious questions to outright mockery.
However, many fans saw the revelation as a powerful moment. In a culture that often encourages women to seek validation from others, particularly men, a celebrity openly embracing her own sensuality and independence challenges long-standing norms.
One popular post summed it up:
“She doesn’t need a man. She doesn’t even need a woman. She’s her own fantasy. That’s empowerment.”
Misconceptions and Backlash
Of course, not everyone responded positively. Critics accused the Kardashian sister of “attention-seeking” or using a “made-up label” for publicity. Others confused autosexuality with narcissism or self-obsession.
But experts are quick to draw distinctions.
Narcissism is a personality disorder marked by an inflated sense of self-importance and a lack of empathy. Autosexuality, on the other hand, is about attraction, not superiority. An autosexual person may deeply value themselves, but that doesn’t mean they look down on others or seek constant admiration.
Psychologist Dr. Janet Tillman explains:
“Just as being heterosexual doesn’t mean you hate your own gender, being autosexual doesn’t mean you’re self-obsessed. It’s simply a different orientation, often misunderstood.”
What This Means for Identity Conversations
The revelation also comes at a time when conversations around sexuality and identity are growing more inclusive. People are increasingly moving away from rigid labels and exploring fluidity. The LGBTQIA+ spectrum has expanded to include many lesser-known identities — demisexual, graysexual, sapiosexual, and now, autosexual.
While some may view these labels as unnecessary or excessive, for many individuals, they offer clarity, community, and comfort.
As one user on Reddit wrote:
“For years, I thought something was wrong with me because I wasn’t attracted to other people the way my friends were. Discovering autosexuality helped me finally understand myself.”
Cultural Reactions and Memes
As with any Kardashian-related headline, the memes didn’t take long to surface. Clips from the podcast were edited into viral TikToks, and jokes circulated like wildfire. Some were harmless fun, while others bordered on mockery.
One viral tweet joked, “Imagine walking in on a Kardashian having a candle-lit dinner with a mirror.”
Still, humor aside, many advocates saw this as a teachable moment — a chance to open up real dialogue around lesser-known orientations.
The Bottom Line
Whether you view it as groundbreaking, confusing, or somewhere in between, the Kardashian sister’s declaration of autosexuality has undeniably sparked a conversation that goes beyond celebrity gossip. It touches on themes of self-love, authenticity, and the importance of language in identity.
In a world that often tells us we’re not enough unless we’re loved by someone else, perhaps the most radical thing someone can say is:
“I’m enough for me.”
That, in itself, may be the most powerful message of all.
Final Thoughts
As society continues to evolve, so too does our understanding of human desire and identity. Labels like autosexual aren’t about creating division — they’re about fostering deeper self-awareness and inclusivity. Whether you’re autosexual, heterosexual, or anything in between, the journey of understanding and accepting who you are is one we all share.
And if a Kardashian sister wants to be her own lover? In 2025, maybe that’s just another version of self-empowerment worth applauding.
