High School Wrestler Forfeits Tournament After Seeing Opponent Take Knee: A Story of Respect and Personal Conviction
At a recent high school wrestling tournament in the Midwest, a story of unexpected sportsmanship and personal conviction unfolded, catching the attention of local communities and sparking national discussion. A young wrestler, 17-year-old Matthew Carter from Lincoln High, made headlines when he voluntarily forfeited his match after witnessing his opponent, James Holloway from Central Tech, take a knee during the national anthem.
The incident occurred just before the semi-final round of the regional championship. As the crowd stood for the national anthem, Holloway knelt quietly at the edge of the mat, his hand resting over his heart. His gesture, which he later explained was a peaceful protest against racial injustice and police violence, drew murmurs from the stands. Carter, who had been preparing for the match of his season, watched solemnly from the sidelines.
When the anthem concluded and it was time for the match to begin, Carter surprised everyone by approaching the referee and informing him that he would not wrestle. The match was officially recorded as a forfeit.
“I wasn’t angry,” Carter told reporters afterward. “I just felt that I couldn’t, in good conscience, compete against someone who used the national anthem—something I deeply respect—as a platform for protest. I know he has his reasons, but I have mine, too.”
Holloway responded with calm dignity: “I don’t hold it against him. He did what he believed was right, just like I did. That’s what freedom means. We don’t have to agree to respect each other.”
The tournament continued, but the conversation around that forfeited match grew louder in the following days. On social media, some praised Carter for standing by his principles, calling his decision honorable and patriotic. Others criticized him for politicizing the moment and undermining Holloway’s right to peaceful protest.
Educators and coaches from both schools defended their athletes. Lincoln High’s wrestling coach, Tom Reeves, said, “Matt made a choice based on his beliefs. He didn’t insult anyone, he didn’t yell—he just quietly stepped away. Whether you agree or not, that takes courage.”
Meanwhile, Central Tech’s coach praised Holloway for remaining composed and respectful throughout the ordeal. “James didn’t protest out of anger. He did it with purpose. He’s never disrespected the flag—he’s trying to make people think.”
The story has since sparked broader conversations about the role of protest in high school sports, and how young athletes are navigating complex social issues in real time.
As for Carter and Holloway, both have expressed interest in meeting in person again—perhaps not on the mat, but over a cup of coffee or at a community forum.
“We might disagree,” Carter said, “but maybe there’s something we can both learn.”
In a divided time, two high school wrestlers—through one forfeited match—offered a powerful example of conviction, respect, and the enduring value of dialogue.
