Dick Van Dyke, 99, Makes Rare Comment About 46-Year Age Gap Relationship with Wife Arlene Silver
Legendary entertainer Dick Van Dyke has charmed generations with his timeless performances, but at 99 years old, he’s making headlines for something far more personal—his enduring relationship with his much-younger wife, Arlene Silver. In a rare and candid interview, Van Dyke opened up about their 46-year age gap and what keeps their unconventional marriage thriving.
Van Dyke, who will turn 100 later this year, married Arlene Silver, now 53, in 2012. The two met six years earlier at the SAG Awards, where Silver, a professional makeup artist, was working backstage. What began as a professional interaction quickly blossomed into a deep friendship—and eventually love. Despite their significant age difference, Van Dyke says their connection has only grown stronger with time.
“She brings a joy into my life that I didn’t expect to find again,” Van Dyke said in the interview. “People talk about age like it’s a barrier, but with Arlene, it’s never felt that way. She’s my partner, my best friend, and she keeps me young.”
The Hollywood icon, known for classics like Mary Poppins, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, and The Dick Van Dyke Show, was previously married to Margie Willett, with whom he had four children. After her passing, Van Dyke was candid about the loneliness he felt—until Silver came into his life.
Critics and fans alike have often commented on the age gap between the couple, but Van Dyke and Silver have never let it define them. In fact, they frequently laugh off the comments. “We’re aware of how unusual it looks,” Silver once said. “But what we have is real, and that’s all that matters.”
Van Dyke credits Silver not only with bringing companionship but also helping him maintain his famously upbeat spirit. Even at 99, he still sings, dances, and occasionally makes public appearances—most recently surprising fans with a musical performance on a reality TV show. Silver, always nearby, encourages him to stay active and engaged.
“She doesn’t treat me like I’m fragile,” Van Dyke said. “She challenges me. She makes me try new things. And when you’ve lived nearly a century, having someone who keeps you curious is a gift.”
The couple also shares a love of music, often posting videos of themselves singing and dancing together on social media. Their joyful energy has inspired fans across generations, many of whom say their relationship gives them hope that love truly knows no age.
In a world quick to judge unconventional romances, Van Dyke’s words offer a reminder that connection, humor, and shared values matter more than the numbers on a birth certificate.
“People ask me what the secret is,” he said with a smile. “It’s simple—find someone who makes you laugh. And don’t be afraid to love, no matter how old you are.”
